3-Day Challenge

How I Used A Secret Formula Based In Science To Attract Wealthy, Marriage-Minded Men!

If you're tired of having to do life alone or attracting men highly in their out-of-balance, feminine-do-for-me energy, discover the missing element keeping you from meeting high-quality masculine men. 

I'm Shay. My life’s mission is to help successful women like you attract the love that your heart and soul are burning for. Love that sings to your heart. Love that you snuggle up with every evening. Love that you can be your true self with. Love that you will grow old with.

Sound like a big claim? Challenge accepted.

In just three days, you’ll learn how to stop struggling in your love life and start attracting high-quality men who are eager to commit to you.

End the pattern of attracting men who want you to go 50/50 on dates and to prove yourself to them and revolutionize your dating life — in just 30 days or less! Tickets start at $197.

  • Three days, Monday through Wednesday for 2-3 hours per day online

  • Identify and melt away your love blocks

  • Step into your most irresistible self

  • Completed by thousands of powerful women with a 98% success rate

Starts on March 18th, 2024

Do not live your whole life waiting for true love to show up.

If You Have Heard People Say:

“Why is a woman like YOU still single?”
“Are you too picky?”
“No guy wants to be with a strong successful woman."
"You’re scary to men.”
“You have high standards. Be more realistic or you’ll be alone forever.”
“Aren’t you worried you’ll miss your window?”
“Don’t you feel weird being alone all the time?”

Then This Challenge is For You, DIVA!

If you’re feeling disappointed by how your love life has turned out, and you’re tired of feeling invisible, this challenge is for you. If you know you’re worth a love you can scream from the mountaintops (of course you are!), this challenge is for you. Don’t lose faith, Diva. We can help you find a man who understands and values your worth.

“The wound is where the light gets in.”
- Rumi

I like to work with women who:

  • Are high-achieving successful career women, Entrepreneurs, and C-level executives.
  • Are financially secure.
  • Have a beautiful home and amazing friends.
  • Have a great life, but not a great track record with love.
  • Spiritual-minded with good hearts
  • Value people over things and are fun to be around.
  • Feel like someone stabbed their heart when they see a happy couple.
  • Have cried themselves to sleep countless times tired of being alone.
  • Scared they are running out of time to have a family.

I ask you to repeat this affirmation after me:

“I am worthy of love. I don’t need to change myself to deserve love. I only need to take the right action to attract love into my life.”

Your Love Diva

This Process is Backed by Science. Shay is Certified in:

  • Certified Love Transformer® (the highest designation in love coaching)
  • Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
  • Rapid Transformational Therapy™ (RTT)
  • Transformative Life, Business, Dating, Relationship  & Love Coaching
  • Hypnotherapy
  • Trauma Healing
  • Energy Healing 
  • Spiritual Readings

She is also a Master Love Strategist, published best-selling author, Florida State University alumni, happy wife, and mother.

Did we mention she was voted One of The Top 5 Love Coaches in the World?


Client Testimonials

I have a 98% Success Rate, and I’m Bringing Receipts

5 stars

"Participating in the 'Love in 30 Days Challenge' was an absolute game-changer for me. Shay Levister's insights and techniques opened my eyes to a new world of love possibilities. Within weeks, I saw a remarkable shift in my dating life, and I'm now in a deeply fulfilling relationship with an incredible man. This challenge is a true catalyst for lasting love!"

- Tameka R., Tampa, FL
5 stars

"I can't thank Shay enough for creating the 'Love in 30 Days Challenge.' It's not just about attracting love; it's about transforming your entire approach to relationships. I went from feeling stuck and lonely to radiating confidence and magnetism. The results were astonishing—I met my soulmate within the challenge's timeframe, and we're now building a beautiful future together."

- Wendy T., Los Angeles, CA
5 stars

"The 'Love in 30 Days Challenge' was a revelation. Shay's wisdom and guidance helped me understand my own desires and how to communicate them effectively. I finally broke free from unhealthy dating patterns and found the love I truly deserve. If you're ready for a profound shift in your love life, don't hesitate to take this challenge!"

- Jennifer V. , New York, NY

Why This Challenge Has a 98% Success Rate

Over 20 years, I have learned that there is a science behind attraction and that changing your patterns is a matter of a few powerful moments and intention. These three days follow a science-based structure infused with love and unconditional support.

Day 1: Love Blocks

You'll discover who you are, what you want, and give yourself permission to have what you want. I'll also help you:

  • Get clear about your Love Archetype and how it leads you to attract a certain type of love experience.
  • Understand your Love Blocks®, how they develop, where they come from, and what is required to heal them.
  • Discover the Diva Love Formula and how it increases the likelihood of attracting your dream life with your romantic best friend. 

Day 2: Love Patterns

How do you present in a relationship and what behaviors sabotage your dates? I'll help you understand:

  • The 6 basic human needs and why they matter. 
  • What drives your decision-making and behavior.
  • Your relationship patterns and how they’ve sabotaged your journey to love.
  • How to align with the invisible laws of the universe.

Day 3: Love Yourself

If you don't know how to love yourself, you will never find a fulfilling relationship that lasts. I'll teach you how to: 

  • How to fall deeply in love with you and become the best version of yourself.
  • How to heal and increase your feminine energy.
  • The science of attraction and why dating requires a strategy instead of doing it on a wing and a prayer.

Take a Look Inside the Challenge

  • Increase your feminine energy

    Build the aura of the irresistible divine feminine energy around you. Amplify your feminine charm and make men eager to approach you. Otherwise, you will repeat the same cycle of disappointing guys, ghosting, abuse, hurt, and pain.

  • Create your divine feminine circle

    Female friendships are therapeutic. They rejuvenate and empower you in a world where everything is designed to drain you. With this challenge, you will be welcomed into our Telegram community of women who are smart, successful, and on the same journey as you.

  • Understand the secret of attraction

    Why are some women worshipped by men and others not? Attraction is a science. It can be learned and applied with the same results. You will learn dating techniques that effortlessly draw men to you and supercharge your seduction skills.

  • Don’t make the same dating mistakes again

    If you do the same things, you’ll get the same results. Change how you have been dating. There are good men out there waiting to be your soulmate. All you need is to evolve your dating techniques.

  • Start attracting better men

    We will stop your pattern of repeatedly attracting men who ultimately break your heart or who don’t make your heart flutter with joy. You are a high-quality woman and you can start attracting high-quality men. It’s possible and fun.

  • manifest-icon

    Manifest the man of your dreams

    Your dream man is out there, and he is ready to cherish and value you for you. When you understand the laws of attraction and how to use your feminine energy, both your professional and love lives will change forever.

Last Few Spots Left!

Hey! I am Shay Levister.

Love is my life's purpose.

Helping you find love within yourself and outside in the dating world is why I wake up every morning.

I’ve helped over 180,000 successful career women from around the world find love even after they have tried everything and given up.

My Love in 30 Days Challenge is just the beginning of your love journey.

Three Things I Swear by When It Comes to Finding Love:

Join the Challenge

Do You Believe You Are Worthy of Love?

If your answer is YES, then here’s the next question –
Is love worth at least $197 for you?

The next challenge starts: March 18 - 20, 2024

  • General Admission


    ($35,000 value)

    This ticket includes:

    • 3-day pass to the Love In 30 Days or Less Challenge with Shay 'Your Love Diva' Levister
    • Access to recordings from the challenge until 11 a.m. EST the next day
    • Feminine Dating Cheat Sheet 
    • Love in 30 Days Challenge Workbook
    • Access to the Love in 30 Days Telegram social group
    • Book a FREE Love Mapping Call with a Certified Love Specialist ($197 value)
  • VIP Experience


    ($58,000 value)

    This ticket includes everything from General Admission plus:

    •  Join and ask questions with Shay in the 1-hour VIP Q&A sessions before each Challenge day
    • Access to recordings from the challenge sessions for 7 days
    • The Perfect Partner List
    • 101 Places To Meet High-Value Men
    • High-Value Masculine Man Webinar
    • Healing Your Love Blocks Workshop

    Select a Payment Option

  • Platinum VIP Experience

    Best Offer! $1,900

    ($82,000 value)

    This ticket includes everything from the VIP Experience plus:

    • Priority to ask Shay questions first in the 1-hour VIP Q&A sessions before each Challenge day
    • 1:1 session with with Shay 'Your Love Diva' Levister ($20,000 value)
    • Free access to our Love in 30 Days or Less Bootcamp ($5,000 regular cost, $25,000 value)
    • Access to recordings from the challenge sessions for 6 months 

    Select a Payment Option

If You’re Ready for a VIP Experience, Consider Upgrading Your Ticket.

  • Confront Love Blocks

    • Face and conquer your love blocks head-on.
    • Courageously address and overcome obstacles hindering your love life.
  • Personal Transformation

    • Shed what no longer serves you, experience a profound shift.
    • Embrace transformation in your life.
  • Empowered Self-Realization

    • Realize that the challenge isn't with men; you are not flawed.
    • Understand your own power and worth, recognize your inherent value.
  • Balance Success and Love

    • Move beyond the narrative of excelling everywhere but in your love life.
    • Recognize that success can enhance, not hinder, your quest for love.
  • Authenticity in Relationships

    • No longer compromise authenticity for the sake of a relationship.
    • Embody captivating feminine energy that naturally attracts the right kind of masculine energy.
  • Unapologetic Self-Expression

    • Be your unapologetically best self, radiating the essence of a feminine goddess.
    • Cultivate an aura that irresistibly attracts the right men.
  • Practical and Sustainable Actions

    • Realize that transformative change requires small, consistent, committed actions.
    • Understand that overhauling your love life is achievable through practical, sustainable steps.
  • Future Vision

    • Envision a future where dreams materialize.
    • Within a year, picture your Mr. Right by your side, planning a future filled with babies and happy holidays.
  • Break Negative Patterns

    • Shed the story of attracting less-than-perfect men.
    • Understand and practice your supreme power in shaping your own destiny.
  • Embrace the Impossible

    • Recognize your ability to conquer the seemingly impossible.
    • Step into a future where your love story unfolds exactly as you desire.


Frequently Asked Questions

If your questions aren't listed below, feel free to email us at support@ShayBetter.com

Who is this class for?
This class is tailored for a diverse range of individuals, including:
  • Alpha women with type A, take-charge personalities who own thier own business and often operate in their masculine energy.
  • Highly successful women who are often in leadership positions and  have achieved greatness in various aspects of life but are still seeking love.
  • Smart, independent women who find themselves chronically single and are ready to change their romantic trajectory.
Who is this class not for?
  • NO MA'AM QUEENS - Women with a negative, bitter, or jaded outlook on love and relationships.
  • NOT YET MA'AMs - Women who are struggling financially and are unable to invest in themselves or their healing.
  • ​FREE NO MA'AMs - Women who want a life of abundance and healthy love but want it free. This is energetically out of order!
  • NO MA'AM SPRINKLES - Women seeking a sugar daddy as a financial solution for their personal challenges.
  • NO MA'AM COLLECTORS - Those who collect relationship advice but never take action and stay stuck in life and love.
  • ​NO MA'AMs - Individuals who are curious about love but not fully committed to their journey. If you are just curious about dating but not serious about attracting your romantic best friend, please don't waste your money or our time. 
How is this different than your courses or free content on offers?

While I provide an array of valuable, empowering content, I'm thrilled to introduce a virtual transformational experience for those ready to start their journey to love and don't know what is blocking them from the love they seek. I provide invaluable information found nowhere else to help you start your journey to love without feeling as though you are dating in the dark.  Drawing upon my extensive dating experiment and years of meticulous research, this challenge signifies a groundbreaking moment in my journey where I share my secret formula based on science for successfully helping thousands of women attract love in the most simple formula in the shortest time possible. It's the very first time I've made this transformative experience available both in a virtual setting and so many women have already benefited from this Love In 30 Days Challenge.

Are the challenge classes live?

To accommodate the busy schedule of the women we serve, after our February challenge, we created a structure that allows you to choose between a daytime and evening option to join the prerecorded classes. Although the classes are prerecorded, the VIP sessions with Shay are live, other women are interacting in the classes with you live and our team interacts in the chat live to answer questions and address comments. Everything will feel as if it is happening live but at the convenience of your life and work schedule.  

How does the 3-day challenge work?

The challenge training will run twice a day from noon to 2 p.m. and 6 pm - 8 pm Monday- Wednesday depending on which date and time you select.

For the best results, you are encouraged to complete the HW given by the end of the day you watched the challenge.

How do the 3-day VIP sessions work?

The backstage VIP sessions with Shay will happen once a month on the designated dates shared in your confirmation email for 3 days straight Monday through Wednesday 11 a.m. - noon EST with questions from Platinum VIP ticket holders having priority to ask their questions first.

Due to the sensitive, personal, and intimate nature of the information shared during VIP sessions, you must attend the VIP session live with your camera on, during the designated times. The recordings of the VIP sessions will not be available or shared.

Will I get direct feedback from Shay?

Only if you purchase a VIP or Platinum VIP ticket. With this experience, you will have a virtual backstage pass to ask questions and be directly coached on the spot by Shay. If you have General Admission, you will not have access to these sessions.

Will I get access to the recordings?

 If you have a standard ticket, you will have access to the recording from 5 pm the day of the Challenge to 11 am the following day. VIP ticket holders will have access to the recordings for up to 7 days and Platinum will have access for 6 months.  

What is the refund policy?

We do not support any option to sabotage yourself.   All of our programs are designed to support women in choosing themselves and achieving the ultimate life and love transformation. THERE ARE NO REFUNDS! Only participate in this Challenge if you are serious about healing what is blocking you from attracting love and desire to ultimately meet your romantic best friend. 

How do I book the complimentary Love Mapping Session?

As a bonus for attending this Challenge, you get one complimentary Love Mapping session. (Value $197) with a certified Love Specialist who will help you identify your unique Love blocks and create a map of how we can help you remove what is blocking you from love and attract your soulmate within 30 days of healing your Love Blocks. You will receive the link to book your call in the Telegram group. You will have only 3 days to book your session and it must be scheduled within 10 days of the first day of your scheduled Challenge.

How it started

A Look Back

  1. 1994
    - 1997

    Certified love coach Shay 'Your Love Diva' lying in a hospital bed sick
    a Look Back

    The time I survived being shot in the chest and a near-fatal car crash. I was shot in the chest during a drive-by shooting. Only a year later, I was involved in a near-fatal car crash where the other driver fell asleep at the wheel and the car flipped off the highway.

  2. 2000

    • Shay graduates from college!
    • After a rocky recovery from both being shot in the chest and the car crash that almost took my life.
    • I pulled it together, and graduated from Florida State University with a degree in Pre-Medicine and Biology,
    • I’m a total science girl!
    Certified love coach Shay 'Your Love Diva' graduation picture
    From a girl to a woman
  3. 2001
    - 2004

    • Hello motherhood!...And hello homelessness
    • I had my first child, a beautiful baby girl!
    • Unfortunately, her father decided to walk-out leaving me homeless and destitute.
    • By 2004, I had given up on love and settled for marrying a friend whom I wasn't attracted to.
    Certified love coach Shay 'Your Love Diva' standing outside near stairs in a dress and pregnant
    First time Mommy!
  4. 2004

    • Life is looking up…Love life, not so much
    • I needed to support my new baby so I tapped into my degree in science and began my career in the Pharmaceutical Industry.
    • Things were finally starting to look up for me.
    • I purchased my first home, a Lexus truck and a massive collection of Louboutin shoes.
    • I was the best at what I did in my sales career but I sucked when it came to love and relationships.
    Certified love coach Shay 'Your Love Diva' posing in a doctors office when she was a pharmaceutical rep
    Moving on Up!
  5. 2005

    • Divorced and pregnant with a toddler and a weak heart
    • I was a divorced, single-mom and expecting my second child.
    • During my last trimester, I was diagnosed with eclampsia which caused Postpartum Cardiomyopathy after I delivered my first son.
    • My heart was failing, literally and figuratively.
    • I just couldn't get it right.
    • I survived but found myself a divorced single mother with two kids
    • I was drowning in the overwhelming feeling that something or someone was missing.
    Certified love coach Shay 'Your Love Diva' standing in a bedroom with her pregnant belly exposed
    Divorced &
  6. 2006

    • 100 dates, 4000 interviews. Let the dating experiment begin!
    • I launched a dating experiment of going on 100 dates in 30 days!
    • Interviewed 4000 men, women, couples, and spent 10 years investigating the science of attraction.
    • And what I found was groundbreaking.
    • Sharing my formula (with receipts)!

      The most exciting part was that the formula I discovered worked for others as well! I documented my daily adventures on my YouTube channel and built a reputation for being able to attract love in 30 days and went from being played to getting paid!As a scientist, I realized that I needed more than myself as a case-study to really prove that my formula worked. So I enlisted a group of women and coached them through implementing my formula and it worked. I was building a reputation as the thought leader and premier love coach in this industry. I honed in on my new-found expertise and began to tap into the metaphysical and neuroscience behind the science of love and attraction. I became a master NeuroLinguistic Programming (NLP) and Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) practitioner who is trained on methods like hypnotherapy to help others achieve lasting results.

    Certified love coach Shay 'Your Love Diva' presenting as a pharmaceutical rep
    Moving on Up!
  7. 2006 Cont’d:

    • Is the Universe hinting at my life purpose?
    • Although my personal life was in shambles, my professional life as a successful pharmaceutical sales representative was building the foundation to what was soon to become my life purpose.
  8. 2009

    • My Rockbottom = Marrying a married man and losing everything
    • I thought I had it figured out! I was very successful at helping women attract love but I had not yet healed.
    • I met a new man, got married within months of knowing him…only to find out that I had been conned into marrying a married man.
    • Yes you read that right.
    • Unbeknownst to me, he had a whole different life, wife and child in another state.
    • After a turbulent divorce, I lost everything…again.
    • Preliminary research results! Getting PLAYED to getting PAID!

      I’m so serious. Men began to buy me houses, cars, sending me on trips around the world, shopping sprees, concert tickets. I was even given tickets to The Masters, The Opens and the Super Bowl. There wasn’t anything that I could not have and I didn’t even have to ask for it. And I know what you’re thinking… NO MA’AM! They weren’t even able to touch the “Hello Kitty” and they still wanted to marry me! I was proposed to seven times and mastered this dating game like Michael Jackson mastered pop music.

    Certified love coach Shay 'Your Love Diva' lying with her head on her arm looking sad
    Sad, Tired & Defeated
  9. 2010

    Certified love coach Shay 'Your Love Diva' standing with a sunset behind her
    The Rebirth
    • The Rebirth: Deep dive in to myself, my kids and my (ongoing) research on love
    • It was at this moment that began digging deeper into my research on the psychology of love.
    • I began to apply what I had learned thus far, and it was actually working!
    • I went from getting my heart broken a thousand times (not literally but it was a lot) to getting paid!
    • I documented my daily adventures on my YouTube channel and built a reputation for being able to attract love in 30 days and went from being played to getting paid!
  10. 2011-2014

    • Shay cracks the code and discovers the scientific formula!
    • Not only did I crack the code, but I had successfully narrowed it down to a scientific formula that led me to attract and manifest the love of my dreams, my childhood sweetheart, who I’d known since I was 14 years old.
    • It was a beautiful romance. Our relationship flourished.
    • We were engaged and married within two years!!
    Certified love coach Shay 'Your Love Diva' standing face to face with her husband embracing at their wedding
    My Romantic
    Best Friend
  11. 2015

    • Manifesting a love worth that was waiting for
    • Happily married for the first time, with an understanding of what a healthy relationship is, and the knowledge that my husband and I decided to try to have a child.
    • How I died, met God and had a life-changing vision

      During childbirth, my heart stopped. I was legally dead for over two minutes. And it was during that transition that I saw God and it was revealed to me that my life purpose is to help women heal and reveal their love block so they too can manifest true love.

      • After paying over 100k to figure out how to heal quickly, subconsciously and got good, I was able to create a formula based in science that had a 98% success rate with helping women transform their lives and attract healthy love.

      • I left corporate America 02-20-2020 and launched my love coaching boutique with a mission to help 1 million women attract true love with their Romantic Best Friend.

  12. 2016

    • Sharing my formula (with receipts)!
    • The most exciting part was that the formula I discovered worked for others as well!
    • As a scientist, I realized that I needed more than myself as a case-study to really prove that my formula worked.
    • So I enlisted a group of women and coached them through implementing my formula and it worked.
    • I was building a reputation as the thought leader and premier love coach in this industry.
    • I honed in on my new-found expertise and began to tap into the metaphysical and neuroscience behind the science of love and attraction.
    • I became a master NeuroLinguistic Programming (NLP) and Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) practitioner who is trained on methods like hypnotherapy to help others achieve lasting results.
    Certified love coach Shay 'Your Love Diva' with her husband and young baby
    The Birth of our Love

I'm Ready to Meet My Partner in 2024!