I am Blondine Esther. My soul's journey is to help women heal, transform their lives and attract their perfect partners. Like many of you, I've experienced sexual violations and suffered from 'depression', physical abuse, and narcissistic abuse. I was a sad case of people-pleasing with low self-esteem and lacking boundaries. I was raised in a home where I saw my mother being hit and banged against furniture. I knew I needed to heal from past traumas so I started reading books, watching social media videos, and podcasts, and even hired a therapist. But I kept going back to a place of brokenness. At one point I wanted to end myself. I lost money, and friendships and was involved in a complicated back-and-forth relationship with a guy. In September of 2021, I joined Shay's program and a few months later I stepped into what felt like a new world of peace, and abundance and discovered my spiritual gift through the process. I made the best investment in myself that allowed me to connect with other Diva Queens, discover who I truly am, increased my salary, attracted quality men, and learned how to move past subconscious blocks that were keeping me stuck. I am beyond blessed and grateful to be chosen to serve you. Take the leap of faith in your healing. It starts with you.
Have you ever wondered where that magical feeling from childhood went? Joining Diva U began a deeper healing journey, but Boss Diva fast-forwarded me back to that magic—that childhood magic so that now I see a world of possibilities and feel like myself again: silly, giddy, smart, feminine, goal-driven, romantic, accomplished, creative, flirty. This is what Shay's program gave back to me: myself, truly the most loving gift of all. My specialty is in helping women with trauma, especially from early childhood. I am able to create a safe space of truth that fosters quick healing: getting to the root of an issue. As an empath, I am highly attuned to nature, animals—and those around me. Because of this gift before Boss Diva U, I struggled with putting myself first, and for years I treated myself as a second-class citizen. But for the love of Shay and God! Her program places you squarely on a different life path: a more profound healing journey that grows as you do. Opportunities will open up for you: more than you can even imagine. I am also a healer for children (and adults) who have experienced cults. Sometimes the world may appear to be a dark place. Shay's life & work is that lantern at midnight. Take my hand and let me light your way.
I am beyond thankful and grateful for finding the best Love Coach and Shay’s life-transforming program when I did! Shay truly saved me. Her program expedited my healing process and provided a shared community that still continues to overflow my love tank, teaching me how to pour love into myself and those around me. I grew up with a covert narcissistic mother. She suffered from deep depression and would tell me that I was her only reason for living. This put a lot of pressure on me to always be “good” and made me internalize and mask my feelings because I felt like if I wasn’t “good” or the “sunshine” in the room, it would cause my mother to end her life. My father and his family were never active in my life and ignored me as a member of their family, even though they all lived within a one-block radius from me. Naturally, I felt invisible and unworthy of love. I joined Shay’s program to heal my traumas so that I could attract healthy love. I was tired of dating the same narcissistic man-baby with a different face. I knew I deserved more, but I also knew I needed support and guidance to achieve my desires. Within 1.5 months of starting the program, the most heart-breaking trauma happened in my life. My only child (my heart outside of my body) hung himself at the age of 19. I found him within minutes of him doing it. Shay and the Diva Community poured their love and support into me while I waited by his bedside in the ICU. These women never left my side. Their support and love brought me through this difficult time. This is a true healing community. When my son passed, Shay asked me what I needed from her. I told her, “Keep me in my light because I know I am about to go into the dark." And Shay did just that. She pushed me to go through the dark, instead of staying in the dark. At times, I didn't think I could do it, but I continued to show up for myself and to stay in my natural light, and I think my light shines brighter now! This journey is what I offer you if you work with me. I understand struggle and grief at deep levels. Through this understanding—and the building of this beautiful Diva community—I can lend a hand to you and your healing. I've been there. Because of Shay and the Diva support network, I was able to stop taking the depression medication within 6 months of my son passing away. I am able to embrace the love that is the true essence of us! I can honestly say, I would not have been able to get that far in my healing so quickly had it not been for Shay, her guidance, love, and support. And this is the gift I can pass on to you.
My healing journey started when I had my one-on-one session with Shay. Back then, I wasn’t happy with myself. I felt discouraged about my arm disability and my overall appearance. I felt I wasn’t worthy and didn’t want to be part of this world. Looking back at who I was, so much has changed for the better. I've come so far with Shay’s help. I joined Shay’s program after my one-on-one session. I wanted better for myself and I thought about my younger self, I wanted to be better for her too. I did things I thought I wouldn't do but were truly important for my journey. Shay encouraged me to meet up with a relative who would inappropriately touch me and set boundaries with them. It was my first time setting boundaries with someone. I was nervous about the outcome, but having Shay and my classmates by my side made me feel at ease. Additionally, I had the courage to do my first solo trip! I attended Shay’s High Tea Retreat. I learned how to properly date, worked on healing my love blocks and so much more!! I am so proud of myself for starting my healing journey at 23. I am much happier and at peace with myself. Joining Shay’s life-transforming program was truly the best investment I made FOR ME! I became the best version of myself and I attracted a good man into my life. I am honored to be part of Shay’s team to help other women transform and become the best version of themselves!
Sabrina Albacete was born in 1965, in a house on a couch in Pleasantville, New Jersey. Her parents' tumultuous and volatile relationship led her mother to leave her father and move to Queens, New York. As a child, Sabrina was raised solely by her mother since her father was absent. Due to the absence of a father in Sabrina's life, she did not experience the critical role that fathers play in their daughters' lives. In addition to providing their daughters with examples ofrespect and boundaries, fathers also help them feel comfortable with other men throughout their lives. Because of her lack of guidance as a child, she could not gain insight and dated men who resembled her father. Due to her absent father and childhood trauma, Sabrina carried the unresolved trauma into adulthood for most of her life. Operating out of a broken place caused her difficulties with relationships. Due to her dysfunction, and the inability to identify red flags, Sabrina was married four times to three different men. Sabrina's desire for change and her commitment to self-improvement led her to enroll in Boss Diva University.
The program has demonstrated incredible value in helping her identify abandonment issues and love blocks. In addition, it has been instrumental in helping her identify and resolve years of generational trauma. In the program, Sabrina learned she lacked self-love and how important it was. The program explained that self-love is our fuel and the foundation for everything else in life. Participating in the Boss Diva University program and fully immersing herself in it has resulted in Sabrina becoming an accomplished graduate of Boss Diva University.
Living in survival mode for the majority of my life left me disconnected from my true authentic self. Prior to the Boss Diva program, my life was on autopilot. I was a slave to my emotions and negative thoughts. My mind was cluttered, my heart closed off, and my emotions unregulated. My early family dynamics shaped my avoidance behavior and lack of boundaries. My mother and Father’s divorce left me jaded emotionally and financially. I felt like I couldn’t depend on anyone because they would eventually leave me. I didn’t believe people could come through for me; to take care of myself, I must only rely on myself alone. And it made me determined to do anything to feel protected, including isolating myself. But then this blocked me from being vulnerable, resulting in my emotional unavailability and unfulfilling relationships, so I decided to make a huge leap into the unknown, to change. Through the Boss Diva program, I was able to do a complete 180. Through Shay’s guidance and her gift, I rewired my thoughts and broke my self-sacrificing tendencies such as neglecting my needs for others' advancement. With her guidance, I was able to rewrite my thoughts to make positive changes in my life. I am now the "Queen of Boundaries." I am here to help you learn how to fill your cup.
I found Shay on TikTok more than a year ago and I started following her because I resonated with her ideas. At that time, I was going through many changes and I was becoming more self-aware of myself on my own. I started therapy a few months later because I knew I had trauma to heal, but even after months of being in therapy, I didn’t notice improvement. I was a neglected and abused child since I can remember up until I was an adult. I then started being mistreated by my romantic relationships. Like Shay says, I was so tired of finding the same man with a different face. I knew I wanted to change and have healthy relationships so I attended the master seductress retreat where I met Shay in person. During that weekend, I did a lot of crying and healing. I also met many beautiful and supportive women that had gone through similar experiences. It felt good to know that I was able to be vulnerable without being judged. Where I am from, people don’t talk about their childhood trauma. I was raised in Mexico and I live in a town where most people come from Mexico. Toxic relationships are common and seen as normal. I used to feel so alone, and I was shamed by my own family whenever I would bring up different ideas. I was always the different one that felt out of place. I still do, but now I know why because I have decided to break generational trauma. I have decided to give myself and my children a better life. I won’t settle or stop healing. That’s why I decided to join Boss Diva University and I’m so glad I did. I was able to work with Shay 1:1 and on group calls. I had supportive sisters in the community that were completing the program at the same pace. I was open about my trauma, behavior, and toxic habits, and I never felt judged or alone. I did so much healing and changed many patterns. I broke all soul ties at that time and therapy did not. I started feeling my emotions in my body again. I learned to be vulnerable. My social anxiety got better, and my energy for life came back. I feel so content with myself and I know I am ready to receive my soulmate. Before working with Shay, I was so afraid to fall in love because I didn’t trust myself. After being abused by your loved ones, it is difficult to trust again. With Shay’s help, I was able to love and trust myself as I had never done before. Now I have the skills to know I will make the right decisions when selecting my husband, job, and health style.
Everything I want in life, I've always been able to achieve. I always felt women could have it all, but I wasn't prioritizing myself. Convincing myself that eventually, the love of my life would show up, but not creating space; allowing my achievements, career, and every other connection to take precedence. I learned that although I've achieved successes, neglecting to make room in my life for myself, for love; I was unintentionally blocking the 'more' that I wanted from making its way to me. This experience with Shay, revealed how I was stifling my growth by not setting strong boundaries in my life and how the desire to be perfect actually limited me from operating in the fullness of my potential. This program helped me free myself from self-sacrifice; always prioritizing the needs of others, over my own and hiding my light, to make others more comfortable. I was able to heal and process my parent's divorce; realize the blessing in their sacrifices for me and release the onus of their missteps. In turn, letting go of my need for perfection. I'm so grateful I took this leap of faith by investing in myself. Now, I am able to experience the fullness of life, the beauty in the journey, and truly operate in my power! Doing the work and showing up for yourself isn't always easy, but it will be worth it. Relinquishing self-sacrifice and self-sabotage are necessary casualties to seize the life you deserve. You WILL have it all! The family, the career, the love; a heart full of happiness! I'm looking forward to assisting you step into the sun! All you want is waiting for you!
I was born in a small town in Michoacan Mexico, then came to the US at the age of 3 and I've been living in Atlanta Georgia ever since.
Ladies, I was ready to call it quits.
I was ready to give up on myself, on my marriage, and even on some friendships that I had made prior to starting Diva University.
On my 1 + 1 with Shay, she listened so attentively to everything that I had to say, took some notes, and then BAM! She hit me with the biggest wake-up call EVER. She said, " I don't think your husband is 100% the problem". I was SHOOK!!!
My relationship with my husband is better than it has ever been. We're taking things one day at a time. We're making time to reconnect with each other, going out with each other more, and strengthening our bond in all aspects.
I'm so grateful to have had this experience and to be able to share it with all of my fellow Diva Sisters. If there's anything from my story I wish you all to really feel deep in your heart, is to never give up on yourself. Choose YOU and the rest will follow.
I can't wait to help you tap into your full potential!
Before meeting my boyfriend, I was enjoying dating. So much so, that when he tried to talk to me on a dating app... I ignored him. He had to contact me a couple of times before I even paid attention to him.
None of this would have happened if I hadn't gone through Boss Diva University. It taught me to fall in love with myself and to enjoy the process of dating. When dating is done right, it can be extremely informative. I've learned a lot about myself and want what I want in a partner.
Now my aim is to help and assist other diva's healing and becoming the best version of themselves so they too can attract the love of their life!